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Friday, November 29, 2013

My Specialties - CBT

For the second installment of "My Specialties," I would like to write about another one of my favorite fetishes, Cock &  Ball Torture (CBT) and its counterpart Cock & Ball Bondage (CBB). This iconic fetish strikes fear in the hearts of most penis-bearers as it focuses on a highly prized body part, only to reveal and exploit its vulnerability. 

My experience with CBT began years ago when I was giving my collared partner a bare-handed spanking on our bed.  One strike fell too low and I smacked him firmly on his testicles.  I swear I thought he would donkey kick me out of pain, but instead, he moaned with pleasure!  We then realized that his genitals had the potential to create intense pleasure out of painful situations, something that would benefit us both greatly with myself being a sadist and him being a hedonist.  Bit by bit, we experimented with new areas of CBT, inspired by various workshops we attended and we quickly amassed a wonderful collection of toys.  We also discovered CBB, for when the CBT devices we bought didn't fit or work, rope always did!

Today I teach a variety of CBT classes, which all reflect my personal play styles.  First, I devised "Cock Bondage on a Budget," a class that teaches how to recreate expensive CBT devices with cheap items, such as rope, rubber bands, and chopsticks.  Next, I was asked to create a basic Cock & Ball Bondage (CBB) to be a counterpart to a Breast Bondage class, which I happily designed and named "Cock Bondage & Rope CBT". Last, I decided to compile all my CBT knowledge into a single workshop, entitled "1, 2, 3 - CBT!" that introduces all sorts of different CBT play activities to excite and inspire!

Next installment of "My Specialties" will be Feet & Boots!

Sunday, November 24, 2013

My Specialties - Pony Play

To start off this series of "My Specialties" I would like to begin with one of my favorite areas of fetishism, pony play, which I feels epitomizes the entire spectrum of BDSM.  There is bondage in all the restrictive tack, discipline in all the learned cues, D/s in the relationship between trainer and pony, and SM in any way you want, whether it just be muscles aching from pulling a cart or from punishing your pony with a whip.

I discovered pony play at at Camp Crucible's Pony Camp in 2010, where I started out as a trainer, earning several ribbons with Ponygirl Toxi.  My enthusiasm for pony play inspired my collared partner to try it for himself, so as he donned the trainer persona, Cowboy, I developed my own pony persona, Pony Whiplash!  Together, we practiced and played for several years, until finally in 2013, we competed together at Camp Crucible's Legendary Pony Show, and won Grand Champions with our unique style of pony play!  That summer, to bring pony play more into Rochester's BDSM community, I organized and ran a Pony Event at the Rochester Kink Society called Pony Palooza, which I fully intend to hold again annually.  Today, I am sharing & teaching my love of pony play with others everywhere I can, using my knowledge as both as a trainer and a pony.

Due to my experience on both sides of the reins, I teach my pony play classes with a unique perspective.  All of these classes are designed to be beneficial to both ponies and trainers, paired or single.  "Getting started with Pony Play: From Tack to Training" is designed for beginners, as the title suggests. However, my other two pony classes, "The Language of Pony Play: Communicating Beyond the Bit" & "Headstalls and Harnesses: Rope Bondage for Pony Play" were created with all experience levels in mind.
 
Stayed tuned for my next installment of "My Specialties - CBT!"