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Saturday, December 14, 2013

My Specialties - Feet and Boots

For the third installment of "My Specialties," I would like to write about yet another one of my favorite kinky categories, feet and boots. Feet are a highly fetishized body part that are inundated with power dynamics in our culture.  Further,  boots add to the foot's image of power with leather's iconic edge, making a powerful fetish even more striking.

My experience with Foot worship developed gradually out of my hedonistic love of footrubs; Footrubs led to pedicures, which turned into toe-sucking foot worship and much much more.  My experience with Boots, on the other hand, had a much more distinct moment of emergence.  I remember feeling so powerful as a teen when I gifted with my first pair of combat boots.  But it wasn't until later, when I joined the kink scene, that I realize how boots could be used as a toy and played with.  At a Boot fetish weekend, I met redwarrior, and attended her classes about leather and boots.  In fact, in her leather worship and boot-blacking class, I was lucky enough to be her demo Top. Let me tell you something, I will never forget the way that beautiful redhead looked when she shined my boots with leather polish on her tongue... From that moment, I was hooked on boots, and they are a regular part of my play now.

Today I teach a class on foot fetish and a class on boot play.  The foot fetish class has a little something for everyone, coming from all perspectives about foot worship and play, whether it be as a top, bottom, sadist, masochist, hedonist, etc.  My boot play class on the other hand, comes mostly from the perspective of the top, as it teaches the tops or sadists how to trample, kick and stomp, or in other words, use their boots as a sensation toy.

Next installment of "My Specialties" will be primal behavior and rough body play!

Friday, November 29, 2013

My Specialties - CBT

For the second installment of "My Specialties," I would like to write about another one of my favorite fetishes, Cock &  Ball Torture (CBT) and its counterpart Cock & Ball Bondage (CBB). This iconic fetish strikes fear in the hearts of most penis-bearers as it focuses on a highly prized body part, only to reveal and exploit its vulnerability. 

My experience with CBT began years ago when I was giving my collared partner a bare-handed spanking on our bed.  One strike fell too low and I smacked him firmly on his testicles.  I swear I thought he would donkey kick me out of pain, but instead, he moaned with pleasure!  We then realized that his genitals had the potential to create intense pleasure out of painful situations, something that would benefit us both greatly with myself being a sadist and him being a hedonist.  Bit by bit, we experimented with new areas of CBT, inspired by various workshops we attended and we quickly amassed a wonderful collection of toys.  We also discovered CBB, for when the CBT devices we bought didn't fit or work, rope always did!

Today I teach a variety of CBT classes, which all reflect my personal play styles.  First, I devised "Cock Bondage on a Budget," a class that teaches how to recreate expensive CBT devices with cheap items, such as rope, rubber bands, and chopsticks.  Next, I was asked to create a basic Cock & Ball Bondage (CBB) to be a counterpart to a Breast Bondage class, which I happily designed and named "Cock Bondage & Rope CBT". Last, I decided to compile all my CBT knowledge into a single workshop, entitled "1, 2, 3 - CBT!" that introduces all sorts of different CBT play activities to excite and inspire!

Next installment of "My Specialties" will be Feet & Boots!

Sunday, November 24, 2013

My Specialties - Pony Play

To start off this series of "My Specialties" I would like to begin with one of my favorite areas of fetishism, pony play, which I feels epitomizes the entire spectrum of BDSM.  There is bondage in all the restrictive tack, discipline in all the learned cues, D/s in the relationship between trainer and pony, and SM in any way you want, whether it just be muscles aching from pulling a cart or from punishing your pony with a whip.

I discovered pony play at at Camp Crucible's Pony Camp in 2010, where I started out as a trainer, earning several ribbons with Ponygirl Toxi.  My enthusiasm for pony play inspired my collared partner to try it for himself, so as he donned the trainer persona, Cowboy, I developed my own pony persona, Pony Whiplash!  Together, we practiced and played for several years, until finally in 2013, we competed together at Camp Crucible's Legendary Pony Show, and won Grand Champions with our unique style of pony play!  That summer, to bring pony play more into Rochester's BDSM community, I organized and ran a Pony Event at the Rochester Kink Society called Pony Palooza, which I fully intend to hold again annually.  Today, I am sharing & teaching my love of pony play with others everywhere I can, using my knowledge as both as a trainer and a pony.

Due to my experience on both sides of the reins, I teach my pony play classes with a unique perspective.  All of these classes are designed to be beneficial to both ponies and trainers, paired or single.  "Getting started with Pony Play: From Tack to Training" is designed for beginners, as the title suggests. However, my other two pony classes, "The Language of Pony Play: Communicating Beyond the Bit" & "Headstalls and Harnesses: Rope Bondage for Pony Play" were created with all experience levels in mind.
 
Stayed tuned for my next installment of "My Specialties - CBT!" 



Friday, August 16, 2013

Testimonials

 Please comment below to leave your testimonial or email it to clawsofvelvet@gmail.com

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I have had the pleasure of working with Schadenfreude as a student, co- instructor, and event organizer. She is always entertaining, informative, professional, and funny. Her classes consistently provide practical information which is easily worked in to ones own practices. Content from her boot play class frequently appears in my play, much to the delight and dismay of my bottoms.  Schadenfreude is passionate, knowledgeable, and an asset to our community.


-FrozenMeursault: BDSM Workshop Presenter. Syracuse, NY 

 

Schadenfreude is an excellent presenter, based on seeing several different topics which she has either part of, or teaching. She seems to research her presentations thoroughly, providing written documents with sources that can be used for a later reference. Going hand in hand with this is excellent organization and easy-to-understand steps and safety information. Most importantly, she always shows her joy for the topic. The demonstrations are always enjoyable because they give light to the fun that can be had, even if the topic is not in your specific kink. The highest praise I can give her is that I have gone to one of her classes simply to see how she taught the information, despite being informed on the subject. Being loathe to receive repetitive information, this shows that she is one of the most interesting presenters to follow, in my book anyhow.


-Kirae: Ithaca TNG Leader. Ithaca, NY 

 

Schadenfreude's presentations are always thorough, organized, and extremely educational.  As an event coordinator, I greatly value her dedication to the community as well as her focus on safety in play.  Schadenfreude has a wide variety of workshops she offers, from safety to role playing to biting - and the audience seems to love them all.

 

-Sweet Kat: Rochester Kink Society Event Coordinator. Rochester, NY


 Schadenfreude visited Ohio SMART to teach not just one but THREE classes to our group, and we definitely want her back. Her classes are fun, engaging, and cover tons of practical information and hands-on application. I especially loved her class on the 7 Bites of the Kama Sutra, and her new co-topping class gave us all new ideas for play. As a group organizer, I often see the same topics offered by presenters over and over again, so it’s an added plus that she has classes available that are a change of pace for our members. 

-RowanMorrison: OhioSMART Trustee. Cleveland, OH


We were extremely fortunate to have Schadenfreude present her new class, Rope Bondage for Pony Play, for the very first time at the December Fetish Foreplay Friday.  It was a wonderful class, with lots of excellent take home information on both rope and pony play. We are looking forward to having her back again soon.

-Sandua: Monkey Puzzle Club Leader. Columbus, OH


Schadenfreude presented for our 13th annual Summer Bash and was a breath of fresh air!  She presented on Erotic Biting and Boot Play Boot Camp.  Schad is fun and engaging in addition to being smart and knowing her craft.  The classes flew by and were highly informative and entertaining.  Many people commented that her classes were refreshingly "out of the box" from the usual BDSM fare.

-Mayafire: Summer Bash Coordinator and Founder of Albany Power Exchange. Albany, NY

 

Schadenfreude is a spirited and talented educator. Her passion for her kink shines through in her workshops, and her enthusiasm is contagious! She had all of our participants whinnying and galloping in no time! She comes highly recommended by Master R and myself as a BDSM educator..

-Miss Couple: Head Mistress of La Domaine Esemar, the World's Oldest BDSM Training Chateau.  Albany, NY

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

My Upcoming Workshops - Updated Regularly

Below I will list and regularly update the workshops that I will be presenting in the not so distant future! For further details, click the workshop links to go to their event pages.

Please keep in mind that many private institutions that I will be presenting at have a vetting process for guests. For more information on how to attend, click the posted institution's link.


My upcoming Workshops are:

 

TBD

Rochester Erotic Arts Festival, Rochester NY

April 10-11, 2015

http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/

 

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My List of Workshops

My list of currently offered classes are organized below with related series listed first, followed by individual workshops.  Classes that belong to a series do not need to be booked together; it is perfectly acceptable to book a single class from any series.

Annotations:
*FAN FAVORITE* means the workshop is highly requested and highly rated
 *NEW* means the workshop is fully operational, but has not been presented yet (That means your organization or event could be the first to see it!)
*COMING SOON* means the workshop is under (re)construction and will be ready to present in a month or so (So if you're interested, book it & I'll finish it faster!)

Boot Play Boot Camp Series

 

*COMING SOON* Recruitment: Communication and Connection for Bootblacks


So you know how to soap up and shine a boot, but how do you develop your own style?  This workshop will help you achieve just that, by going beyond practical skills to explore the psychology of bootblacking.  Discussion topics will include self-expression, "sole"ful connections, and scene negotiation.

 

*FAN FAVORITE* Basic Training: Boot Stomping


Boots aren't often considered a toy, but after this class you'll be looking at them differently! This workshop with demo will teach you to use boots as a tool of pain and pleasure, eliciting emotions from fear to adoration. Be sure to wear your best stompy boots, and if possible, bring a partner to trample.

*NEW* Special Forces: Outside the Bootblacking Box

Give the boot to any preconceptions you have about a "typical" boot scene!  This workshop will explore dozens of unique and untapped ideas surrounding boot play, ranging from reversed D/s roles to alternative bootblacking positions to the most unexpected kink combinations.  Kick up your heels and enjoy the multiple mini-scene demonstrations meant to entertain and inspire you.


OMGWTFCBT?! Series (CBB & CBT)

 

*FAN FAVORITE* Cock & Ball Bondage and Rope CBT


The quickest way to a man's submission is through controlling his cock and balls! Of course, the best way to do that is to use a bit of rope, utilizing bondage that can be cruel or kind, tormenting and tantalizing. In this class, we will learn the basic elements of cock and ball bondage, some torturous tricks of the trade, and bondage safety. For best results, bring a cock to practice binding and 8 to 12 feet of thin rope (3/16 of an inch is ideal for beginners).


Cock Bondage on a Budget

Cock bondage devices are loads of fun, but they don't come cheap. Luckily for you, this class will teach you how to recreate several popular cock bondage devices with a couple feet of rope, chopsticks, rubber bands and some imagination. For best results, bring a cock to practice binding and 6 to 10 feet of thin rope (3/16 of an inch is ideal).

 

 *NEW* 1, 2, 3 - CBT!

Penises Beware! This workshop will teach the many methods of sadism that surround Cock & Ball Torture, ranging from the basics of ball-busting to bondage-induced chastity. We'll cover almost every play option in CBT, even advanced ones, and do several demonstrations. If possible, please bring a partner to practice on!

 

"It's Stabletime!" Series (Pony Play)

 

*FAN FAVORITE* Getting Started with Pony Play: From Tack to Training


Ever dreamed of becoming or owning the perfect pony? This class will let that fantasy become a reality! All the basics will be covered that you need in order to get started in Pony Play with plenty of anecdotal stories to inspire you! Topics that will be covered are safety, grooming, tack, play styles, and building all those concepts into your very own individualized routine.

 

The Language of Pony Play: Communicating Beyond the Bit


Whinnies, nickers and snorts, oh my!  Come learn the subtle language of pony play.  This class will not only teach you how to make authentic-sounding pony noises, but will also teach you what those noises mean.  Whether you are a trainer or a pony, this class will help you understand your partner's cues better.
  

Headstalls and Harnesses: Rope Bondage for Pony Play


Talk about tack and most people automatically think of leather.  But that's not your only option!  This class will show you how to make all sorts of tack from rope in a unique combination of bondage and pony play.  Bits and bridles, halters and hobbles, we'll learn to tie them all in this workshop!

The Dog & Pony Show (Pet Play Series)

 

*NEW* Barking Orders!: Getting Started with Puppy Play

  If its time to teach your dog some new tricks, then try this interactive, paws-on workshop! This class will cover all the basics you need in order to get started in Puppy Play. Topics will include safety, headspace, gear, commands, play ideas and much much more!

 

*COMING SOON* Purchasing Pervertibles for Pups, Ponies & Other Pets: How to Navigate through Vanilla Pet & Tack Shops

Get ready to shop till you drop without dropping hints to the vanillas about what you're up to!  This workshop will discuss all the best purchases you can make for pet play without outing yourself.  Product quality and safety will be heavily emphasized, along with shopping tips for subtlety.

 

Submissive Skills Series

 

Pretty Please? The Basics of Begging


Begging is one of the finest talents a submissive can possess, for in begging one can display their desire, humility and obeisance to their dominant.  This workshop will teach submissives how to articulate their pleas in a most pleasing manner.   Dominants are, of course, welcome in this workshop, so that they may learn how to mold their submissives into expert beggers.

Let it Go: A Guide to Processing Pain


Submissives, come learn how to turn Ow into Ooo!  This class will teach a multitude of pain processing techniques that will help you become a heavier masochist by expanding your pain threshold and tolerance.  Bring a toy that you have difficulty enduring (yes, your Dominant may count as a toy) for discussion and interactive activity time.

Stand-alone Workshops

 

*FAN FAVORITE* The Sensual Art of Biting

 

Biting is as sensual and complicated of an art as kissing, yet few practice it as much. In this workshop, you will learn and practice the seven sensual (and some sadistic) bites of the kama sutra, as well as biting safety. This is an interactive class so please bring a partner to nibble upon.
 

Bringing your Fantasies to Life: A Guide to Role Play


We all play roles in life, but taking on fantasy roles in the bedroom can bring a whole new slant to your sex life! This class will teach you how to elaborately design and enact your hottest fantasies, while also covering how to introduce and negotiate role play with a partner, as well as psychological safety. If you've got a fantasy, this class will help make it come true.


Feet so Sweet: A Guide to Foot Worship


Feet? What a Fetish! As long as you're not foot-phobic, feet have a lot to offer every kind of kinkster. From sensation (either sadistic or sensual) to service, this workshop will teach you the art of giving AND receiving, from pedicures to bastinado to toe-sucking and more!

 

Double Trouble: The Joys of Co-Topping


What's more terrifying than facing one sadistic Top? Facing two! This class with demo will teach you the many styles of co-topping from cooperative to competitive. Learn to combine your forces of sadism with a fellow dominant to give your submissive the thrill of their life. For best results in this class, bring your favorite flogger or riding crop so that you can participate in the demo!

 

*COMING SOON* Slap Happy Spanking!


Versatile, erotic, and compatible with many other fetishes, spanking is often under-appreciated for all its kinky value. However, this class will teach you look at spanking with a different perspective as we learn techniques and tips on how to smack that ass!

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Got anything else you want to learn? Post suggestions below!

So You Want Me to Present...

How to Contact Me


Email me at clawsofvelvet@gmail.com

In the email, tell me what class(es) you are interested in, where (approximately) your organization is and give me a few dates that would work for you.  Please also mention what accommodations your organization can offer me.  While I usually ask for travel expenses and a place to stay, I can make exceptions and I am happy to negotiate.

 

My Presentation Policies


I am a free of charge presenter; all I ask is that your organization or group covers my (and my demo bottom's) travel expenses (if your event is more than 2 hours away from Rochester, NY) OR offers us comped or discounted tickets to your event. I will provide my own equipment for the workshop/s, though I may ask that your organization cover incidentals. For example, I would appreciate it if your group could provide dental dams for the Biting workshop and small office supplies, such as pens or pencils for the participants. If need be, I also am more than happy to adapt my workshops to better suit your facility, organization or just general needs

 

My Travel Policies


I am willing to travel anywhere in the United States, but I will only drive as far as 8 hours away.  I recently received my enhanced driver's license, so I can now travel to Canada too!  I will do my best to keep travel expenses low, and I am more than happy to take cheaper public transport than airplanes (bus, train, car etc.) as well as to stay as a guest in a member's home (female preferred), rather than expect a hotel.

About Me as a Presenter

Kink-wise, I am a young, but experienced kinky bitch, who has been in the BDSM scene for over 5 years.  Personally, I identify as a dominant sadomasochist, which means I do fall into the category of switch.  In every subject I teach, I have experience as a top and a bottom, so I bring a unique perspective and thus provide information and insight that is practical to kinksters on either side of the slash.

In my vanilla life, I have collegiate and graduate degrees in science, and I am currently enrolled in a graduate program for scientific education.  I have many years of experience as a tutor, workshop leader and teaching assistant at multiple universities.  Beyond experience in the field of education, I have the pedagogical training that allows me to design effective and fun educational activities.

Ultimately, teaching is my passion and kink is an inseparable part of who I am, so it's only natural that I progressed from being a teaching assistant in science to leading BDSM workshops.  In my workshops, I employ demos, written handouts, open discussion time and interactive activities. This variety ensures that my classes are captivating and multidimensional, which not only keeps an audience interested, but enables everyone to learn through the use of various teaching devices.

An important note: My classes are unique to myself and my own experiences in the kinky world. BDSM is not a science unfortunately, so what I teach is not necessarily fact. I will not claim to be an expert in anything, because as my scientific background has shown me, the more you specialize in an area, the more you realize there is to learn.

An Introduction

Welcome to my little corner of the internet!

My scene name is Schadenfreude (Herrin Schadenfreude, if you want to use my full title), and I am a kinky sadistic bitch. I've created this blog to function as a placeholder until I get an official website up and running for my work as a BDSM workshop presenter.

Please use the Quicklinks on the right hand side of this web page or the links below to navigate through my different posts.  You can also use the My Workshop Subjects on the right hand side of the web page to navigate to my different workshops.

Important posts to read through on this blog are:


Fun posts to read to get to know me better on this blog are:


Sadistically,
Schadenfreude